Friday, 26 August 2011
How much calls/caring is too much?
But i have been with friends who IMMEDIATELY after getting off the fone with their loved ones (who has probably called to find out how their days are going, if they have eaten, when they will be going home stuff like that) say things like 'ah, this is getting choking abeg. Cant he/she give me small breathing space?'. And i wonder.
No calls - wahala. Calls 'too much' - wahala. Na wetin?
Can there be anything like 'too much care'? I have heard that too much of everything isnt good but then can caring be too much?
I guess their has to be some balance but then balance is relative. What is balance for me could be extreme to another.
How does one, therefore know when not to be 'care -choking' the other?